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Pup's Bed


Under the hobby table in a corner of the basement is where I stored it.  She had only used it for three months before that aggressive liver disease claimed her body.  Her 80 pounds were well supported and the bolster gave her the chance to prop her head into her favorite sleeping position.  In a corner made by my nightstand, the wall and the bed is where she had slept for years.  The new bed was meant to comfort her aging bones and it fit perfectly in her spot next to me.  On that rainy day two Junes ago, I moved her bed to a spot under the hobby table.  I couldn’t let it go nor look at it sitting empty beside my bed.

If Pup, the greatest dog ever in the world, had had a son, I think she would have wanted him to answer to the name Zip.  She would have wanted him to be an exuberant lad who could play as long as the kids around him wanted to run and chase, throw and fetch.  She would have taught him to be a gentle soul whose calling was to always smile, to come when called and to snuggle close to everyone who loves him.  Pup would have shown him just the way to sidle up when he was needed to chase human stress out of the room and let a sense of calm form a bubble around him and his mom, his brothers and his dad.

Labrador Retrievers got their name from the Labrador region of Canada but they originated in Newfoundland.  (You know - like Chop Suey was invented in San Francisco or Brooklyn and Italian Pizza came from Greece.)  Since there was already a breed known as the Greater Newfoundland from the region, this new breed, derived from the St. Johns water dog, emigrated to England and became known as the Labrador.  Over  the next few decades, patterns of trade and travel changed dramatically.  Owing to a rabies quarantine in Britain and sheep protection statutes in Newfoundland, Labradors became virtually extinct in their homeland.  But this remarkable breed of loyal, loving dogs had planted their paws in a place where their skills and traits were highly appreciated.

With webbed paws and a coat that could shed water better than a Gore-Tex rain suit, Labs became the companion of choice to hunters of water fowl.  With their buoyant coat and swimming strength, some Labs were trained to tow nets of fish to shore in the coastal fishing villages of England.  The innate desire to please was evident from the breed’s earliest days.  Labs were durable, hard-working and took great joy in bringing the prize back to their human partner.

When you meet a Lab, you will have found a friend unless you intend to do harm to his family.  While there is not an ounce of viciousness in his body, the Labrador Retriever will stand his ground and protect his person without any hesitancy, regardless of the pain he might suffer.  They are care givers.  When I was sick, Pup would take up the vigil next to my bed or my chair.  She would only ask to go outside when the need was absolute and she would eat less than half of her normal consumption.  Her job was to look after me – nothing would prevent her from fulfilling her calling.

So, after sitting empty for many months, her bed has been filled again.  Not at our house but in the house where Pup went to visit and where she stayed when we were away.  A little boy named Zip has come to live with the Grays.  Zip likes to hang his head off the edge while he sleeps. 

As I look at the picture of him in her bed, I like to think that Pup left some guidance there.  Zip might find new insights as he burrows his nose into the crooks and crannies of that comfortable bed.  Somehow he’ll know that there is wisdom in the footprints left from two years ago.  He’ll sense Pup’s presence in shape of the foam and he’ll hear her counsel about what to do.  Not her son but Pup might have left him the motherly advice that is essential to every young boy becoming a gentleman.  Puppet bequeathed a place for Zip to rest and set an example for him to follow.  He has already shown he’s up to the task.  His yellow coat is a like a new sunrise.

--td

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