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Barber Shop


Very few still have wooden statues of Native Americans positioned at the entrances. The blue-white smoke that formed a constant cloud hanging below the tin ceilings has dissipated as anti-smoking ordinances were enacted and enforced.  But the candy cane swirl of a barber pole still announces one of the last surviving havens for guys.  These places are not salons.  You can’t make an appointment – some don’t have telephones.  Barber shops.

Last week, I sat in the barber chair in Barry’s shop.  His is a traditional chair with a cast iron base and long handle with a faux ivory grip so he can operate the chair’s hydraulic pump.  The action of pumping sounds like a moose gargling while his mate is wheezing but the seat raises or lowers so the head of hair is brought to the barber’s hands and eyes. 

Every shop, Barry’s included, has a picture window in front or on the end of the row of barber chairs.  Such windows are always slightly smoky with some of the lettering chipped or faded.  Without fail, there are posters announcing events for the local schools or community charities.  For passersby, the view might look like aliens – turning and tilting, rising up and lowering down in a device reminiscent of  Captain Kirk’s seat in the Enterprise.

In the middle of a Tuesday, business was slow.  Kids were in school, normal adults were working and that left room for the codgers to capture the place.  “Heads of hair” may overstate the backlog of work for Barry because the hair that these pates once donned is now mostly absent.  Some might expect the talk to be highbrow – politics and such.  After all, an election loomed within a week.  Or perhaps the hurricane called Sandy and the hell she (or he) was visiting on our east coast neighbors.  What else would be expected of distinguished older gentlemen who were past the 20 mile mark of life’s marathon?

Nope.  Stories of Halloweens long past dominated the discourse.  Nothing was said about the cuteness of costumes selected by their grandkids.  These were stories about mischief perpetrated a half century or more before.  The first storyteller put the mark on the wall – convenient memory and enhanced recollection gained momentum as each one recalled his youthful escapades. 

The fellow in Barry’s chair (names were not known nor needed among the barber shop patrons) was getting his biweekly flat top trim.  All by itself, the cut was enough to place him as a septuagenarian – or possibly a member of some alien cult.  Hearing aids from both ears were removed and his trifocal glasses rested on the counter below the mirror.  The sleeves of his plaid flannel shirt were rolled up to reveal the woven long johns beneath.  Being in the chair gave him the floor – he spoke.  He told his tale.

The telling went uninterrupted because he had no way to know if anyone was listening since he couldn’t hear nor make out the expression on any face.  Punctuated by smiles and chuckles, he recounted times when he led his band of pranksters in the commissions of minor infractions like soaping windows and tilting outhouses.  Uninterrupted his story ran on until Barry spun him around and returned his glasses to look in the mirror and approve the cut.  He paid for the cut and sat down to reinsert his hearing aids.

Next batter.  That’s what Barry called out.  Next up was a really big guy with a fringe of hair encircling the three or four follicles that still produced a strand of gray.  Ruddy cheeks and neck bespoke hours in the fields tended by hands as big as canned hams.  Short sleeves revealed huge biceps – pistons that needed open air to stay cool.  His laugh came from the center of his barrel chest and its sound waves seemed to rattle the glass.  His story tickled himself – so much that his whole recitation was laughter driven by memories and punctuated with occasional words.  Smiles all around testified to the contagiousness of his happy nature.

So on it went.  One after the other.  Each story, to the extent it could be followed, outdid the last.  There was not a word spoken about anyone’s problem or concern.  The old tube type television sat on its stand but remained dark.  Not a single cell phone was consulted for messages, calls, emails or information from the internet.  The codgers talked without judging the talkers.  Everyone had entrusted their troubles to the invisible Indian outside the door.  In the fishbowl on this side of the picture window, no one cared who watched nor what they’d say about what they saw. 

Sixty minutes elapsed.  Six haircuts delivered.  Six guys smiled.  So did the barber shop.

--td

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